"Dads Hurt Too" - Remember Bereaved Dads On Father's Day

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He may look strong on the outside, but he too has a broken heart.



Sometimes, we neglect to realize in our society that Fathers hurt, just as much as Moms.

When planning your Father's Day activities this coming weekend, don't forget to reach a caring hand to those Dads who have lost a child.  Sometimes, we forget that men hurt too, and they are usually suffering in silence, as they have been taught to hide their true feelings.

When a child dies, people tend to swarm around the Mother, as they just can't imagine what it would be like to give birth to a baby, only to lose it somewhere down the line of life.  In the background, the man stands silently, as his heart is bleeding all over the floor, and no one turns around to notice.  They may get a pat on the shoulder, as condolences are whispered, but they too are sobbing uncontrollably, even though their cries for help are usually buried amid masculinity.

Anyone facing the loss of a child knows how deep the crater runs, and no one should be exempt from the love and support that is needed for this crucial time of understanding.  Dads hurt too.  They may be spinning out of control in their own minds, trying to stand tall for the strength of the family, but they need a shoulder to cry on, or a thoughtful hug, to let them know you are there for them too.

So, on this upcoming Father's Day, while our own Dads are being praised, please take a moment and send a little reminder or prayer to a Dad that is hurting because his child has died.

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Kim Halerwich-Clark is a Certified NLP Practitioner and Life Coach, as well as, the author of multiple personal development books. 

 Kim is an Instructor on Udemy where she teaches a variety of topics to students all around the globe, including the course, "Dealing With The Loss Of A Loved One".  

 She is the Founder of The Solution Wizard Company that is dedicated to assisting individuals in overcoming challenges that face society everyday.



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