They Are Still Here When We Call Their Name

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 For those who are suffering from the loss of a loved one, it appears on the surface that they are no longer with us.




The physical connection is an overpowering obstacle to bear when someone we love transitions from this world into the next realm.

It takes a willingness to learn about death from different perspectives, and a journey not many people want to take.  When faced with the loss of someone we love, we have never chosen a destiny filled with pain and sadness; however, our lives are submersed within this context by force.

Our love lingers in our hearts, without a path to follow in the beginning of grief.  Only through understanding and research, can we discover what intricate details lie within the fabric of our existence.  We assure ourselves that we are not going crazy at exploring this side of our world, as our thoughts can be riddled with curiosity and wonder.

Through reading and studying, it is possible to give notion to something more beyond this world. 

If you have lost a loved one, and are struggling to cope with this new way of life, try a different approach in your grief healing.  

Simply call their name, and listen in silence. 

Over the course of time, you may feel changes in the energy in the room, hear random thoughts among your own, and possibly even "see" a misty collage of wonderment in front of your eyes.  When we become open to the possibility that life goes on in another form, we can begin to receive signs and messages from those we are yearning to connect with.  It appears on the surface to be just an awakening of a dream, but I have found over the course of time, it is much more.  

Listening for cues, being an open receptacle, and analyzing the differences that are happening in each episode is how you will discover the connection to love is eternal.  It is not something that fades with time, nor death.

Our journeys will take us to vast experiences, if you are willing to become open to learning all you can in this remarkable existence. 

Kim Halerwich-Clark is the Instructor of the online course, "Dealing With The Loss Of A Loved One" on Udemy where she untangles the process of grief and explores the possibility of life after death.








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